Sunday, December 18, 2016

A Weekend of Winter Adventures

I took a bit of a break from blogging - not because I really wanted to, but just because there was so much going on and I just didn't have the time to make blogging a priority. My apologies dear readers. I have promised myself as part on a New Year resolution that I'll make more time for keeping the blog updated.
 
Your letters and notes are super awesome - thanks for inspiring me to get back into blogging!
 
Below are some of the images from a recent weekend around Seattle. Enjoy!
 
The Boa at the Woodland Park Zoo during Wildlights at night. Perhaps we were keeping it awake? This yawn was epic!

D, funny outfits, and chai - lovely night!

Lunch walk at the office - trying to get as much vitamin D as possible.

Christmas reindeer!


Poor pic quality, but great gods- there's snow in Seattle!

Anti-Trump protesters marching in Seattle even in the freezing cold.

Monday, December 12, 2016

2nd Yule at SilverHouse - An Adventure in Building Traditions

Hello folks!

Welcome to our second holiday season at SilverMoon!


This year, thanks to a visit from D's parents and a giftcard for my birthday from my mom, we really upped the holiday spirit in the house. Since I didn't come here with a lot of things holiday related I've been slowly  building up my seasonal decor by getting one really nice piece a year. Last year was a blown glass Christmas tree in a clear ball, this year was a layered forest scene made out of several thin sheets of wood.



The rules for holiday decorations here are:
1. No loose glitter. Glitter gets everywhere and I hate cleaning it up, especially if it keeps hiding in various nooks in the house.
2. Dog friendly. The last thing anyone wants is a sick dog - so decorations with lots of loose parts, things that look like chew toys, or tiny decorations that could be swallowed in one gulp are all no-go.

Two rules. That's not so bad. ;-)

Last year's ornament - blown glass Christmas tree

Two piece deer and heart ornament

Perfect Christmas tree - comes with lights and easy to store!

You can tell from the photos that I also prefer things that are hand-made out of wood, glass, or ceramic. I also really like deer and elk images over little Lord Jesus. I've seen deer and elk and they are amazing, but Jesus imagery, while a concept of rebirth that I appreciate, doesn't speak to me as much. Plus, I enjoy having a religiously ambiguous home where I hope everyone can feel welcome.

The other things I like to think about before getting a new piece are where the item came from, who made it, how durable the item seems to be, and how storable it is. It isn't like we have a ton of room in the tiny house, so setting aside three feet or more for an actual tree wouldn't work on both the space level, and that I just don't want a dead tree disintegrating in my home. So - things like garlands, recycled pieces that D grew up with, and the flat-pack lit Christmas tree with two reindeer carved into it work really well in that they don't take up much space, show really well, and will all fit neatly into storage after January.

One of the fun things about living in a new place is setting new traditions. We talk about things like when to set up decorations, who does what job, how to hang the lights, and when decorations should come down. We each have our own family traditions that we are used to and just feel right - to us. D is used to Christmas stuff going up Thanksgiving evening. I'm used to things happening Christmas week or even Christmas eve. T is about a week or so after Thanksgiving. This year we set up the Yule decorations the first weekend of December - which we all liked as a group compromise.

D got out the boxes from his childhood, I went out and used my giftcard and brought home some new treasures, T helped me hang things and held the chair and untangled and tested the lights. Perhaps this is the start of a new tradition?

What sort of traditions are in your house? What sort of ornaments do you own and why? Who made them? What is their history? What are your customs around the end of the year and dawn of another? How do you build traditions in a blended household?

Next week we plan to visit ZooLights - pics and updates coming soon!

Saturday, November 19, 2016

Pyewacket Growing UP!!

Enjoy this puppy-perfect timeline of Pyewacket growing up. She is just over 9 months old now!

Baby Pye - during the first few weeks home

Looka da face!! aww!

Ears up in the backyard
Puppy time at the training center

Recess at the training center - so happy!


Playing with the other corgi puppy at the center - tail and no-tail!

Pye's Princess Crown - we taped her ears for a few days when she first started teething.

Bring your dog to work day
First time at the park!

Lazy park day

Rainbow Pye

Meeting friends at Greenlake Park

Corgi butts drive me nuts!

Meeting *more* friends at the park!

Cuddle pile with Familiar
Bring your dog to work day - all grown up and able to stay awake

Hard at work!

Car rides curled up in the puppy hammock


Digging? What digging?

Camping - King of the Hill
Going for walks with my *almost* grown-up pup!

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Lunch Breaks and Love


 
It was so nice outside I decided to take a stroll around the building at work. Along the way I spotted what looked like a pair of garden spiders trying to mate. The smaller one, which I'm assuming is the male, waved its front arms and tried to alternate between petting the female and dodging being lunch for her. Talk about a lunch break!

For the female's part, she tapped her back legs, almost impatiently, and stayed still otherwise. The male occasionally tried to 'bop' her in the lower-middle, but most of the time he just kept up the wavy arms dance.

I thought it was still too Winter for spider-mating...but I'm not expert on these things.

She was very beautiful. Much more red than the other garden spiders in the area. I made a mental note to mark each garden spider I noticed on the way back to the office and they were mostly yellow / golden colored. There were a few in the trees which were more brown. Perhaps it makes sense that she was red - I found her hanging off the light post near the rose garden. Do spiders take on the color of their surroundings?



 

Monday, November 7, 2016

Monday Puppy Cuteness

Just in time to perk up those Monday blues - Pyewacket photo bomb!

Story of these photos - Pye and I were walking in the University Village Mall and, since my favorite color is mulberry and I dress my dog, we kind of dress alike. This gets all sorts of adorable attention, on top of the attention Pye gets on her own, and a photographer asked if he could take some shots of us there on the street.

At the time I was enjoying an ice cream from Molly Moons and Pye was sitting next to me hoping to heaven I'd drop some. When I'm doing things with both hands I usually put a foot down on Pye's leash just in case anything really catches her eye and she decides to jump - with my foot on the leash she won't pull me over.

We used some of the vanilla ice cream and sample spoons to help Pye pose for the photos.

The last one is Pye in the back of the car. She always falls asleep in her hammock during long car trips!






 

Saturday, August 20, 2016

The girl who rode through fire

Summer break is over and I'm excited to get back into the "groove" of blogging again!

I had a new experience recently - riding my bike through a wildfire.

My commute involves a trip on the I-5 highway. There's no real way around it, well there are several ways around it that I'll consider when we have an earthquake, but there's no real sensible way around it that would get me home at a reasonable time. So I headed from my work to the highway like usual. Traffic seemed a little heavy - but it is rush hour, so that's not unusual. Unusual was the double helicopters flying low so close to the landing path for the airplanes at SeaTac airport.

Also unusual was the yellow haze...

The area ahead was mostly residential so I figured someone's house was burning. I rode forward figuring I'd pass the house and the smog would lift. As I got closer to the highway the smog got thicker. People were out on the sidewalk looking around cautiously. Everyone was walking to the highway overpass. At that point I figured "car fire" and drew down my clear visor on top of my eye-shade visor to keep the smoke out.

Then it got a little surreal.

I rode slowly with traffic, sweating like a pig the whole time, and it started to snow. Little bits of off-white ash drifting down all around me. There were little pieces like snowflakes, but also large pieces that looked like they shouldn't be floating at all. I watched a chunk of ask the size of my hand float by slowly and felt that I was momentarily trapped in an ancient sno-globe.

Standing under the sun, a hot engine blowing at me, looking out through my helmet at a sepia world where gravity didn't seem to work quite right - surreal.

I continued to ride.

Traffic took me to the highway and I passed the firetrucks fighting what turned out to be one of Washingtons many many wildfires. All traffic southbound on I-5 was parked. Traffic going northbound behind the on-ramp was parked.

I rode north on a very empty highway thinking 'I'm the girl who rode through fire.'


-pic from internet




Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Summer Break and Other Adventures

I've been radio-silent for just a bit but there are lots of exciting things to share and they'll be coming up soon!

As a teaser -

We've been doing some Ikea Hack construction projects...

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There is a tiny house updated tour coming up...
 
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Pyewacket is becoming a big girl! Adorable puppy overload is coming...

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It is officially hiking, camping, riding, and exploring season in the Pacific Northwest - Adventure Reports await!
 

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

Motorcycle Commuting

Finally started commuting by motorcycle!

I used to 2-wheel commute when I worked closer to home - but then my commute grew to 30 minutes by highway, not including getting through the city to even get to the highway, and so I stopped taking two wheels.

Eventually though - Hubs needed the car more than I did and I had to start taking the bike. I ride a Honda CB500 XA and it is the perfect bike, not too short, not too tall, oomph enough to get me around, and cheap enough that I could actually afford it (sorry BMW). D rode with me a few times on the weekend back and forth to work just so I could get a feel for the route without being alone.

Surprising things to know-
  • Since traffic is so horribly bad on I-5 returning into the city at rush hour - I rarely get over 50 mph. That used to really bother me in a car, but on the bike it is just enough to get a good breeze through my gear and take in the scenery.
  • Since I have to leave a little early in order to get to work with enough time to change and finish / fix my hair and makeup - I skip the worst of the rush hour traffic in the morning.
  • The added height allows me to see further ahead the accidents I'm coming up on and gives me extra time to break.
  • People give me more room than I thought.
  • I can take the HOV lanes.
  • Since I'm not going out in full gear at noon to sit in lunch rush traffic - I save money and calories by bringing lunch more often.
As I am going from biker chick to office chic - I've built up a little kit and a routine to help make the transition.

First - In the evening I pack up my clothes for the next day and set out some casual comfy clothes to travel in. Sweats, T shirt - whatever I walk the dogs in, that's what I wear while riding.

Next, I make sure I have a lunch packed...not leaving the office for a drive on my break!

In the morning - I part my hair opposite of where I normally part it and put on a dew rag. Seriously, the dew rag is the answer to how to ride without getting 'motorcycle hair.' They are more easily washable than removing helmet pads, and they don't have to look like you belong with the Saints N Sinners.

Dew-it!
Then I get ready in the morning as usual - dogs, purse, all that jazz. I skip foundation and just do eye makeup and tinted SPF gloss. Remember to get out the door just a little bit earlier so you can do the rest at work.

I pack up my purse, work shoes, change of clothes, and lunch into a large messenger bag and gear-up!

Gear Round Up!

Jacket - I'm still wearing my Firstgear TPG jacket with the d30 armor. It may be too hot for mid-summer, but I love it for fall, winter, and spring.

Pants - I'm using Joe Rocket Ballistic 7.0 Pants which I love because of the adjustable hem (shorty!) and the double zippers on the side for more air flow.

Boots - TCX Waterproof..not sure of the model name - it rubbed off - but the boots themselves are comfy and keep my toes dry and have ankle and shin guards.

Gloves - Scorpion EXO Coolhand II and are my most comfortable gloves...although I do wonder about how much protection they offer...the fabric sticks to the Velcro snaps and has begun to fray a bit... may be time for a new pair...

Helmet - HJC SY-Max Modular with sun visor. Great helmet - very light for a modular, but could use more / better venting.

Misc - cooling neck wrap, assorted dew rags and bandannas

Biker Chick to Office Chic - My Makeup Gear Bag


  • Bare Minerals SPF matte foundation powder. This clicks shut so you don't get powder everywhere. You can also put a little puff inside.
  • Hair elastics
  • Mini claw clips
  • Wet wipes - never know when you'll catch that bug with your face!
  • Tinted Baby Lips balm with SPF
  • Jewelry - I pack it away while riding. Earring backs are sharp!
  • Herbal Essences Mouse - okay, it isn't in my take-along bag, I leave this in my locker at work to fix any frizz and revive flat helmet hair.
  • Band-Aids - 'cause I take them everywhere.
  • Benefit's They're Real Mascara Mini. Why a mini when a full size is cheaper? Well, it takes up less space and you shouldn't keep your mascara that long. It takes me a year to use up a full size tube of mascara - but you should replace mascara every couple of months. This way I use what I have and then replace it. It may cost a tiny bit more - but new mascara is less costly than an eye infection.
  • Scented hand lotion - like perfume, but with moisturizing benefits!
  • Skinceuticals physical blocking matte tinted SPF 50 - this stuff is great! Matte SPF with staying power and enough tint for it to work as a sheer foundation.
Well, that's it for me!

What do you pack for riding to work?

So you want to move to Seattle?

I get this a lot.
 
Are you picturing misty mountains of emerald green? Happy Amazonians chilling by the channels with their dogs and coffee watching the boats traveling to and from the locks? Perhaps you have lingering memories of glitter speckled vampires and you just know, know deep in your heart, that everything will better once you get to Seattle?
 
Well, while Seattle certainly has those things, this isn’t a beginner city.
 
But, what do you mean? All the tech companies are there!
Yes, there is a lot of tech here. We have some amazing work going on in medical science, online shopping, gaming, and yeah – it is pretty gosh darn cool.
 
We also have some issues – tech is a white male dominated industry. Are you a highly educated upper middle class white male? If so, cool for you! You’ll be a step ahead of every woman and every person or color! Unfortunately, you’ll still be competing against every other highly educated upper middle class white male and you won’t have the local-boy advantage…
 
But, you have a $15 minimum wage! Even if I don't get a tech job I'll still make good money!
Yeah, right...
 
Right now the minimum wage is $13/hour if you work at a large company like Target or McDonalds…but you only get that if you don’t get healthcare.

 
If you do get healthcare, no matter how the health plan works for you, try $12.50 – That’s Starbucks.

 
$12 if you work for a small company that provides healthcare.
 
$10.50 (but at least $12.00 total comp) if you work for a small place like a cafĂ© that doesn’t provide healthcare but counts your tips.
 
But, that’s way more than I make now!
 
Awesome. I totally believe that, and it may look like way more than you are making now - but how much are you paying in rent right now? Do you have enough saved to make first and last and deposit on a studio apartment in a bad part of town that costs you $1000/month not including utilities? Are you willing to sign a lease on an apartment you haven't seen? Or are you willing to compete and bid up the rent when the landlord (or more likely property management company) invites 10 people into the same apartment for a group viewing?
 
That's $40 a background check too, and don't forget that you may get your credit run a bunch of times too...and you still may not get the place.
Are you going to drive to this minimum-wage job? Can you afford parking? Public transport? Are you going to bring your bike? What will you do when you get a ticket on your car, you lose your Orca card? Your bike gets stolen?

Even APodments go for about $800/month right now. Sure, you could get a room with some friends – maybe a couple months with them and you’ll get a room in a big house…maybe. But you’ll be competing with cute college kids with money to burn and the above mentioned upper middle class white guys with jobs at a big tech company. Oh yeah, and every landlord will want to know where you work, how much you make, and if you have pets. Pets will cost you here - license fees, vet fees, insurance fees, a larger rental deposit, and pet rent. Pets pay rent in Seattle.
 
But, I’m cool / pretty / awesome and I make friends super-easy, I’ll network!
 
Great! You go network and be all sunny and bright-  be advised though, a cold spell is coming. It is called the Seattle-freeze and there are lots of theories on it. Like Bigfoot, lots of people swear it exists and lots of folks say it doesn’t or doesn’t affect them. My personal theory? Seattle has a lot of transplants, and since we are new and you are new we can chitchat, grab a coffee, meet up at a drop-in Crossfit party and you’ll be sure to meet up again…sometime. When is sometime? Well, never. Sometime means never in Seattle. Welcome to the freeze.
If it affects you it can be really hard to overcome, and perhaps I’ll save a Combat the Seattle-Freeze post for the future, but just be aware – the Seattle freeze may exist for you. It can affect your job interviews, potential friendships, potential romantic interests – what are you going to do when your would-be employer will get back to you sometime, when that cool person you met at the bus stop says let’s get coffee sometime, or the person you thought was your own personal glitter-vampire will give you a call back…sometime?

Also be aware of the Seattle Blues - winter here isn't especially cold, but it is especially cloudy. Low gray clouds, not really raining, sort of misting - just enough to frizz your hair but not enough to grab an umbrella. Picture this for months. You wake up to gray skies, work, come out to gray skies, go to sleep - rinse and repeat. Do you get affected by seasonal affective disorder? Are you prepared for the Seattle Blues?
But, Seattle is so alternative! I has to be better / more accepting than here!
Yeah, you’re right. Compared to other parts of the country, fewer people will look down at you or be openly hostile to you for being gay, queer, trans, or any other minority. But, just ‘cause they don’t care what you identify as doesn’t mean they won’t judge you. Racism and classism are pretty big here.
 
Also, where you work, how conventionally or unconventionally pretty you are, and how much money you have play an important part in acceptance in Seattle. Are you a professional alternative model with an outgoing personality, an established home-base, and a website bringing in spending money while your superior IT skills let you live as a remote-nomad? Or are you in-between-hormones-weight-fluctuating-dealing-with-heavy-emotional-damage-new-transplant with few no skills, no friends, a backpack, and a fuzzy non-defined dream of communal housing and egalitarianism? Either way you can still make it – but one of you is at a distinct disadvantage.
 
While being more accepting than some other places - Seattle still has racism, classism, misogyny, bigotry, transphobia, homophobia, and all the rest. Sometimes they come out in less obvious ways. How will you deal with the situation when you and 10 other people are vying for one apartment and the white married couple from Google are chosen over your mixed-race queer self? Even though you got there first and signed the papers - that landlord might forget when he gets offered an extra thousand a month on top of what he was asking. Can you pay $1500 extra a month to top them?
 
That stuff still happens here. Oh - and when you do get that apartment - don't be too quick to unpack. Your rent will go up next year. It may intentionally go up a lot in order just to get you out. Or, your building may get sold to a redeveloper who doesn't have to honor your lease. You have 30 days to GTFO. Sue? Sure, go for it, you pay for a lawyer and it will get postponed until your bank account runs dry. Your building will be torn down, redeveloped into high-end townhomes of 1000 sq feet selling for 400k, and they will all be sold and moved into before you get your day in court.  
 
But I heard you have a lot of homeless services!
Seattle also has an underground, a notorious underground of child prostitution, slave trade, drug addiction, and homelessness. Lots of kids come here running away from violence and despair only to find a different kind of violence and despair here. There are a lot of homeless kids here. A LOT. We have a lot of homeless services because we have a lot of homeless to serve. 
 
The youth shelters, they run out of space. Youth shelters are safer than the streets – but they aren’t cozy campfires and sing-along songs. This is a tough place to be a young person and a lot end up homeless or in trafficking situations. What makes you different from them? What will prevent you from becoming them? How do you identify a trafficking recruiter? How do you tell the difference between someone who wants to help you and someone gathering information about your life and dreams in order to use it all against you later?
 
Shelters also set strict rules for when you have to line up to get a bed, line up to wait for food, line up to take a shower, and grab your belongings and head out. You'll be up and out of the shelter, blinking sleepily at the world, long before the library opens. Coffee? Well, unless you can pass, all the bathrooms are for paying customers only.
 
Also, there is some money involved with all this as well. You, as a homeless person, mean money to certain 'advocates.' Their funding goes up if you are on their roles. If there are no homeless people - then their job is redundant. They have rent to pay, kids to put in soccer, movies to see - and the more people in shelter the bigger their program gets and the more funding they can raise. Prison operates the same way.
 
But it is so pretty!
 
It is totally pretty! I love going to the beach and going camping in the woods and going on adventures - I even have an adventures tab! But the geography isn't without danger. Earthquake, tunnel collapse, wildfire, terrorism - are you the type of person who actually makes plans for this stuff? You don't have to be an apocalypse prepper - but do you carry an emergency kit in every vehicle? Do you keep a kit at work and another at home? Are you prepared for no electricity, no water, no cell phone? Where is your meet up point? What roads will you use? What if you or a loved one is injured? What if someone you don't know is injured? Will your building survive an earthquake? Have you digitized your photos and personal documents in case they are lost in a fire? Can you do CPR and make a splint?
 
Not that everyone needs to be a field medic - but there will be an earthquake, we are having worse and worse wild fires, and we are a major city.
 
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Seattle can be a really cool place. There are amazing people here from all over the world. We have a fairly decent (for America) public transportation system. Our geography means you can chill at the beach in the morning but spend your evening on the slopes. We have a big ferris wheel, lots of great parks, an aquarium and a zoo, and great art museums. There are some really great progressive schools, research opportunities, child care programs, and social justice programs. There are public events, music, and really well-known companies to work for.

 
It also has horrible traffic, racism, classism, bigotry, gentrification, a child sex trade, a slave trade, gangs, drugs, and a huge cost of living. Oh – as a bonus, we are pretty high per capita on serial killers….that’s for the sparkle vampire fans.

 
Now, before you say I should just leave if I don’t like it – you should know, I love it here. I love it here even knowing that there are people suffering in the Jungle homeless camp. I love it here even knowing that there is major gentrification going on in the Central District. I love it here even knowing that there are people who are facing raising rents, hard drugs moving in, and violence. I love it here even knowing that I'll get stopped and checked out by the drug dealers down my street who literally stand in the street and make the cars stop in order to check who is coming down "their" block. I love it here even knowing that there are serial rapists and sex offenders.
 
I love it despite these things. I don't want to forget these things because I want to talk about these things. I want to work to make these things not just disappear so we can't see them but for them to become part of our history. I don't want to sweep them behind an Emerald Veil.

 
I tell you these things because I want you to love it here too. I don’t want you to be surprised by how many homeless people there are, by seeing really young looking girls walking Aurora, by wondering when ‘sometime’ is.

 
Seattle is really cool, but it is just as messed up as anywhere else.

 
So, if you come here, come with a plan, come with your eyes open, come prepared, come to help solve the problems and enjoy the adventures.
Welcome to Seattle.

Sunday, May 22, 2016

Puppy Update


Everything in my life has been revolving around three things lately - either puppy, work, or family. I wake up throughout the night for potty runs, and during the day there are a lot of puppy-related tasks as well. I'm mostly exhausted. Happy to have such an awesome puppy...but jeez, I forgot how much work is involved!

Recent puppy-pics:

Meeting sheepdogs at the park

Ears up!

Happy in the grass

Check out that slice of blue!

Sniffing with friends

Corgi puppy playtime!

Who's under the table?
Also - In a non-puppy related event, I watched the Seattle Sounders lose to the Colorado Rapids this weekend.